About a story

A story like a tree, out of context. Out of context, a tree is an aesthetic, shapeless continuum- Root and leaf-tip turn to branch and root hair, and who can tell one end from the other? In a space beyond soil and sky, where does a tree begin, and where does it end? With twists and turns and sudden dips, we are like trees too, unchanging in our essence as we move through life. Our stories have no beginnings, and no clear ends, in the immenseness of time.

Yet the tales we tell must have these points, starts and finishes and dramatic changes, as if our continuum must have these reminders, that there is another space, a story-space, where lives begin and end in sharp punctuation. It takes a rare talent to move through these spaces and make them meet- Weave words like fingers tracing the lines of a tree, marking cracks in the bark and the softness of petal into the shape of a story one can tell, a tale worth sharing.

Gently, word-fingers probe disastrous lives, turning them into things of beauty, each in their own light. An alcoholic mother, a struggling step-father. The life of a writer. Drug abuse and unsafe teenage sex. Imperfection made perfect, in the light of kindness. What can happen, in these fragments? A story, most stories, would begin and end, characters stepping into glorious sunsets or people placing sawed-off shotguns in their mouths. The tree-story, instead, just watches, as the mother and daughter fight at the end as they did at the start, as the father struggles to write as he does throughout. Friends flit in and out, incidents occur, and life goes on, in much the same vein as it did on page one, if you called that the beginning.

Less about conflict and resolution than about the observation of both, and the reminder that people, however lost and angry and screwed up, have these sparks of loveliness, like perfectly phrased joy in a story of despair. It's about paying attention to these moments, because in a story like this, people, like trees, are unchanging and ever-growing, a seamless weave of beauty and imperfection.

(The book: Imperfect Birds, by Anne Lamott)